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No DMs, no private accounts, no official records. Where a category comes back empty or thin, the report says so instead of guessing.
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Profile says he lives in Boston. In chat he mentions meeting up in Brooklyn next weekend. Worth asking which city he's actually based in before you make plans.
Three messages in 24 hours pushing to move off the app to a different platform. Pattern is consistent with rushed-intimacy plays. Confidence: possible.
Public LinkedIn handle you shared lists a different employer than the one he mentioned in chat. Could be outdated — worth a casual check-in question.
Your report is yours alone. There is no community feed, no group vote, no shared profile of him. Your screenshots stay on your account, you can delete them anytime, and uploads auto-delete after 30 days.
Plain answers about scope, privacy, and what we don't do.
No. Tea: Honest is private informational guidance, not a formal screening service. We don't run official records searches or produce regulated decision reports. Reports must not be used for employment, housing, credit, insurance, or any other eligibility decision. They are guidance for your own private safety read.
Yes. There is no public feed, no community, no shared profile of him. Your report and screenshots are only visible to you. You can delete them anytime, and uploads auto-delete after 30 days.
No. We give you a neutral read with evidence, a confidence level, and concrete next-step questions. The decision stays yours.
Not in this version. Reports are private to your account. You can copy individual scripts or notes, but there is no public share link.
If the material is too thin to draw a conclusion, the report says so. You can add more screenshots and regenerate once at no extra charge — we'd rather say "unclear" than pretend.
Only legal publicly available information that ties back to what you share. Full Safety Check uses public social and web signals — public posts, profiles, and pages — plus public professional profiles, and email and phone signals where available (for example, whether the email he gave you appears in known public data breaches, or whether the number is a mobile / VoIP / recently reassigned line). It is not a background check, not a consumer report, not an official records search, not a sex offender screening, and not identity verification — every finding is informational only and you stay in charge of the decision.
Tea: Honest provides private informational dating-safety guidance. We are not a formal screening service and do not produce regulated decision reports. Reports must not be used for employment, housing, credit, insurance, or any other eligibility decision. Findings are signals and guidance, not legal conclusions.
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